#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Why chasing happiness is making us miserable!

#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Why chasing happiness is making us miserable! We’re told to chase happiness like it’s some glittering prize waiting out there in the world. A bigger paycheck. A busier social life. A longer to-do list checked off. But here’s the truth I wish someone told me years ago:Happiness doesn’t live “out there.”It lives inside. Quiet. Waiting. Whispering. And for those of us who are highly sensitive or introverted, that whisper can easily get drowned out by the noise of everyone else’s idea of a good life. That’s why sometimes the bravest thing you can do isn’t to add more, but to turn down the volume of the outside world long enough to hear yourself again. Ask yourself: What makes you feel lit up—not for…

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#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Are You Bored or Just Underchallenged?

Are You Bored—or Just Underchallenged? For highly sensitive people, introverts or those with social anxiety, boredom isn’t just a passing mood—it’s a signal. A sign that your gifts, energy, and potential are being underused. Boredom Is a Wake-Up Call When your life lacks meaningful challenge or stimulation, boredom sets in. Left unchecked, it can spiral into anxiety, loneliness, and even depression. In some cases, it pushes people toward unhealthy escapes—addictions, impulsive decisions, or self-destructive habits. You’re Not Lazy. You’re Ready for More. Boredom often means your creative side is starving. What would light you up again? A new hobby? A class? Volunteering? Movement? Even a new pet? Personally, I've always loved collecting things like Coca Cola memorabilia, old books, and visiting flea markets and rock…

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#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Are you addicted to unhappiness?

#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Are you addicted to unhappiness? Do you secretly believe that happiness is for other people—not you? If you're highly sensitive or introverted, you feel everything more deeply—including pain, disappointment, and loss. So it's no surprise that some of us quietly believe we don’t deserve to be happy. Or worse, that happiness is dangerous. Here’s the uncomfortable truth:Some sensitive people are unconsciously addicted to unhappiness. It feels familiar. It earns us sympathy. It keeps us "safe" from the risk of joy—because joy can be taken away. But here's what no one tells you:Your sensitivity is also the key to exquisite happiness. When you give yourself permission to feel joy—really feel it—you experience it more deeply than most people ever will. The problem?Many of us…

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#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: What If Finding People Who Get You Was Easier Than You Think?

Do you ever wonder how to find people who get you? As a highly sensitive person, introvert, or someone with social anxiety, it can feel especially hard to meet people who share your depth, curiosity, and quiet passions. But here's something simple that can change everything: Have a hobby. Even better—share it. Many people like yourself have a rich inner world and a wide range of interests. But we often forget that those very interests can be a bridge to connection. Whatever your interest your hobby can help you: Meet like-minded souls Spark new ideas (maybe even a business!) Add meaning and joy to your life Feel more confident socially—because you're sharing what lights you up I get a lot of questions like:"How can I…

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