#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Are You Overlooking Your Best Qualities?

#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Are You Overlooking Your Best Qualities? As a highly sensitive person and introvert, I've spent a good part of my life learning to understand myself better. One thing I've discovered is how easy it is to focus on what we think is wrong with us while overlooking the very qualities that make us special. Have you ever done that yourself? I know I have! Here's what I've learned from my own experience: Sometimes, our greatest strengths are the very things we take for granted. Why are we so quick to criticize ourselves but so reluctant to give ourselves credit? Maybe we dismiss our talents because they come naturally to us, or we believe that unless we do something perfectly, it doesn't count. Here's…

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#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: What If Being Different Was Never the Problem?

#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: What If Being Different Was Never the Problem? For years, I thought my goal was to become more "normal." Talk more. Worry less. Stop feeling everything so deeply. Blend in. I believed that if I could just fix those things, life would finally get easier. I was wrong. The problem was never that I was different. The problem was believing that different automatically meant defective. As a highly sensitive person, an introvert, and someone who has lived with social anxiety, I spent years measuring myself against people who were wired completely differently than I was. Every comparison convinced me that I needed to change who I was instead of understanding how I was wired. I felt different as a child. I was tall…

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#HighlySensitivePeople: Do you need tips to be a more confident person?

Below is a list of tips to boost your self-confidence from the Young Entrepreneur Council (YEC), an invite-only organization comprising the world’s most promising young entrepreneurs. Strengthen your mind. Self-confidence is a state of mind that can be achieved through intentional action. Allotting time to nurture your mind, body and spirit (preferably one hour a day) can be done in a variety of ways. I prefer to read, exercise and meditate in the morning. If you’re not taking time for yourself, then you’re allowing someone or something to shape your view of the world.  —Dustin Cucciarre, BryghtAds Inc. Discard the negative thoughts you don’t need. A whole new branch of psychology is dedicated to mindfulness, but it boils down to this: Negative thoughts and insecurities…

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#HighlySensitivePeople: How do you feel about being criticized?

Who likes to be criticized? As a highly sensitive person and introvert, the scary feeling of being judged is intensified, as is the pain of  being humiliated.

I had a grammar school teacher criticize me in front of the class. It had a long lasting affect about the way I felt about school. I was afraid to go to class and was never a good student. (more…)

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