#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Feeling overwhelmed? It might not be your fault!

#HighlySensitivePeople #Introverts: Feeling Overwhelmed? It might not be your fault! Most of us aren’t overwhelmed because we’re weak, disorganized, or bad at time management. We’re overwhelmed because we’re constantly trying to fit ourselves into a world that doesn’t fit us. A world that praises nonstop productivity and punishes rest. A world that shames quiet souls for needing time to process. A world that treats deep feeling like a flaw instead of a strength. As a highly sensitive introvert, I’ve often felt like I should be able to do more, push harder, and keep up with everyone else. But the truth? That mindset nearly broke me. Yes—some structure helps. But time management alone isn’t the whole answer. The real shift happens when we stop treating our…

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#HighlySensitivePeople: Does fear hold you back?

Overcoming fear and not allowing it to hold you back in life is a journey of self-discovery and resilience. Fear, while a natural human emotion, can become a barrier to growth and happiness if not managed properly. The process of overcoming fear involves understanding its roots, confronting it, and developing strategies to manage its impact on your life. The first step is recognizing that fear is a normal emotion. It serves as a protective mechanism, alerting us to potential dangers. However, when fear becomes overwhelming or irrational, it can hinder our ability to make decisions, take risks, or pursue our goals. Identifying the specific fears and the situations that trigger them is crucial. Acceptance is key. Denying fear or fighting against it often exacerbates it.…

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#HighlySensitivePeople: Is Discomfort Bad?

At first glance, discomfort does seem bad, but it can prevent you from expanding the many possibilities that you have. It’s human nature to want to stay in your comfort zone, but does this help you?

Questioning your discomfort is a good starting point to see if your uneasy feelings are justified. If not, why not go for it? If so, it might be a good idea to dig deeper about the cause. Perhaps your angst is coming from somewhere else that needs to be explored and examined. (more…)

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#HighlySensitivePeople: What Are You Worried About?

Unfortunately, worry has been a constant companion in my life. As I get older, and hopefully wiser, I’m learning that most things that I worried about didn’t happen or weren’t as bad as I thought. Has this happened to you?

We formulate our thought patterns early in our lives. Have you stopped to examine if some of these thought patterns are true? For some unknown reason I had come to believe that the more I worried, the better I could cope with worry, fear, and anxiety. Definitely not true! (more…)

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