Highly Sensitive Thoughts Blog

Are you a people pleaser? Let’s be real—if you’re highly sensitive, introverted, or struggle with social anxiety, the answer is probably yes. You’ve been trained—by society, by family, maybe even by yourself—to believe that your worth is tied to how much you give. But here’s the hard truth: people-pleasing is self-betrayal. Do you put everyone else before yourself?Is saying “yes” just a reflex—one that keeps you trapped?Have you ever considered that your people-pleasing might actually be hurting the people you love? The Hidden Dangers of Being a People Pleaser Your Relationships Can SufferIronically, trying to make everyone happy often leads to disappointing everyone. Overcommitting drains your energy, making you unreliable, overwhelmed, and distant. People don’t respect you more for saying “yes”—they just expect more from…

Highly Sensitive? Introverted? Socially Anxious? It’s Time to Shut Down Negative Thinking—for Good! Do you have negative thoughts? I do. And let’s be real—so do you. You’ve been trained to. Society thrives on making us doubt ourselves. Especially if you're highly sensitive, introverted, or socially anxious, you’ve been handed a script that says: You're too much. You're too quiet. You're too sensitive. You're not enough. I do! I try to minimize them as much as I can.  It's human nature to have more negative thoughts than positive ones. Negative thoughts are things that none of us really want to have, but we all seem to get at some point. Whether it's about ourselves, the things we're doing, our jobs or other people, it's difficult to…