#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: How much ____ are you willing to tolerate? (Fill in the blank!!!)

“How Much ____ Are You Willing to Tolerate?” (Fill in the blank!!!) Do you let people say or do things that hurt you—without standing up for yourself? If you're a sensitive, introverted, or socially anxious person, you're probably used to keeping the peace.You stay quiet to avoid conflict.You tell yourself it’s not worth the drama.You wonder if maybe you’re just overreacting. I understand. I’ve lived it. As a child, I didn't speak up.I let people walk over me—not because I didn't care, but because I was scared.Scared to make things worse. Scared to lose connection. Scared of rejection. One of the wisest things my late mother told me was:“Speak up, or be left behind.”It took me years to understand what that really meant.When I finally…

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#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: What If Finding People Who Get You Was Easier Than You Think?

Do you ever wonder how to find people who get you? As a highly sensitive person, introvert, or someone with social anxiety, it can feel especially hard to meet people who share your depth, curiosity, and quiet passions. But here's something simple that can change everything: Have a hobby. Even better—share it. Many people like yourself have a rich inner world and a wide range of interests. But we often forget that those very interests can be a bridge to connection. Whatever your interest your hobby can help you: Meet like-minded souls Spark new ideas (maybe even a business!) Add meaning and joy to your life Feel more confident socially—because you're sharing what lights you up I get a lot of questions like:"How can I…

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#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: Do you get upset over other people’s Insensitivity?

Do You Get Upset Over Other People’s Insensitivity? If you’re highly sensitive, introverted, or socially anxious, chances are you’ve been deeply hurt by someone’s careless words, dismissive tone, or complete lack of awareness. Maybe a friend invalidated your feelings. Maybe a co-worker steamrolled over your boundaries. Maybe a family member told you to “toughen up.” And each time, you felt a sting—a mixture of hurt, frustration, and even disbelief. How could they be so insensitive? But here’s the uncomfortable truth: expecting sensitivity from an insensitive world is a recipe for suffering. Why Are We So Shocked by Insensitivity? Highly sensitive people (HSPs) process emotions deeply, pick up on subtle cues, and naturally consider how their words affect others. So when we encounter people who don’t…

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#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: Is your brain overloaded? Here’s how to fix it.

Is Your Brain Overloaded? Here’s How to Fix It. If you're highly sensitive, introverted, or struggle with social anxiety, your brain is probably on overdrive 24/7. Thoughts. Worries. Endless to-do lists. Other people’s emotions. Your own emotions. The news. Social media. The expectations of the world. It’s exhausting. And yet, society expects us to function as if we’re not carrying all this mental weight. No wonder we feel overwhelmed, scattered, and mentally drained. But here’s the thing: most of that brain clutter? It’s unnecessary. And you have the power to clear it out. Here’s what’s helped me—things that go against the “hustle” mentality and the pressure to do more, be more, achieve more. 1. Write It Down—Or Let It Go. Stop trying to remember everything.…

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