What If the Career You Chose Was Never Meant for the Person You Actually Are? Let’s be honest—most career advice doesn’t work for highly sensitive people. We’re told to “lean in,” hustle harder, climb ladders, network like pros, and power through. But what if that constant push is exactly what’s burning us out? What if the job, the career path, the identity you’ve built… was never aligned with your nervous system, your natural gifts, or your values? If you’re bored, burned out, stuck, or secretly dreaming of something else, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken. Here are some thoughts: Start with your nervous system, not your résumé. If your body contracts at the thought of Monday morning, that’s not weakness. That’s wisdom. Don’t chase passion—follow…

Did my question arouse your curiosity? I get so many questions from highly sensitive people about right livelihood. It seems the majority of people feel like a square peg in a round hole. Their choice of career doesn’t fit their personalities and interests.

Can you relate to this? Are you in a career that is not fulfilling? Are you in a career that just fills the need to make money? If so, you’re not alone. Highly sensitive or not, it’s important to be in your right environment, one that makes the best use of your talents and interests. (more…)

A positive work environment and a sense of purpose are especially crucial for a highly sensitive person. It's important to think about the type of situation that you'd like most to be in. People gravitate towards different occupations without giving it much thought about whether their personalities and interests are a good fit. If you're currently in a work situation that's too stressful or not meaningful to you, perhaps you need to make a change. You don't have to quit your job, but what is preventing you from seeking other options, including starting your own business on a part-time basis? Maybe take night courses on topics that you're interested in. Perhaps you might meet someone in these classes in your field of interest that could…

Do you hate your J-O-B?  Many people do!

A positive work environment and a sense of purpose are especially crucial for a highly sensitive person. It’s important to think about the type of situation that you’d like to be in. (more…)