#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: Do you get upset over other people’s Insensitivity?

Do You Get Upset Over Other People’s Insensitivity? If you’re highly sensitive, introverted, or socially anxious, chances are you’ve been deeply hurt by someone’s careless words, dismissive tone, or complete lack of awareness. Maybe a friend invalidated your feelings. Maybe a co-worker steamrolled over your boundaries. Maybe a family member told you to “toughen up.” And each time, you felt a sting—a mixture of hurt, frustration, and even disbelief. How could they be so insensitive? But here’s the uncomfortable truth: expecting sensitivity from an insensitive world is a recipe for suffering. Why Are We So Shocked by Insensitivity? Highly sensitive people (HSPs) process emotions deeply, pick up on subtle cues, and naturally consider how their words affect others. So when we encounter people who don’t…

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#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: Is your brain overloaded? Here’s how to fix it.

Is Your Brain Overloaded? Here’s How to Fix It. If you're highly sensitive, introverted, or struggle with social anxiety, your brain is probably on overdrive 24/7. Thoughts. Worries. Endless to-do lists. Other people’s emotions. Your own emotions. The news. Social media. The expectations of the world. It’s exhausting. And yet, society expects us to function as if we’re not carrying all this mental weight. No wonder we feel overwhelmed, scattered, and mentally drained. But here’s the thing: most of that brain clutter? It’s unnecessary. And you have the power to clear it out. Here’s what’s helped me—things that go against the “hustle” mentality and the pressure to do more, be more, achieve more. 1. Write It Down—Or Let It Go. Stop trying to remember everything.…

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#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: The dark side of people pleasing: Are you sacrificing yourself for others?

Are you a people pleaser? Let’s be real—if you’re highly sensitive, introverted, or struggle with social anxiety, the answer is probably yes. You’ve been trained—by society, by family, maybe even by yourself—to believe that your worth is tied to how much you give. But here’s the hard truth: people-pleasing is self-betrayal. Do you put everyone else before yourself?Is saying “yes” just a reflex—one that keeps you trapped?Have you ever considered that your people-pleasing might actually be hurting the people you love? The Hidden Dangers of Being a People Pleaser Your Relationships Can SufferIronically, trying to make everyone happy often leads to disappointing everyone. Overcommitting drains your energy, making you unreliable, overwhelmed, and distant. People don’t respect you more for saying “yes”—they just expect more from…

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#HighlySensitivePeople#Introverts: Do You Actually Forgive Yourself, or Do You Just Punish Yourself Forever?

Do You Actually Forgive Yourself, or Do You Just Punish Yourself Forever? Self-forgiveness is one of the hardest things for me. I hold myself to impossible standards, and when I fall short, the self-blame kicks in. Hard. Can you relate? We all have things we regret. A moment of weakness, a poor decision, a time we let someone down. Maybe you hurt someone you love. Maybe you made a mistake you can’t undo. Maybe you are the mistake, or at least that’s what your inner critic tells you. But here’s a question that hit me like a ton of bricks:At what point does guilt stop being "accountability" and start being self-inflicted suffering? We wouldn’t sentence someone else to a lifetime of shame and self-loathing, so…

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